My Thoughts: Thoughts on Life
Showing posts with label Thoughts on Life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Thoughts on Life. Show all posts

Tuesday, November 13

Happy Diwali all..!!


May all your happiness light up and sorrows burn out. 
♥  Happy Diwali all..!!  





Saturday, May 5

RCT (Root Canal Therapy) - First Appointment with less Pain


Monday -April 30,2012 :
I had severe tooth pain so I left office early for checkup.After going through the initial checkup and X-ray , doctor suggested me to go through RCT ( Root Canal Therapy ) as one of my right tooth decayed and the process will be finished in two appointments. I got my first appointment with surgeon on Friday at 7.30PM ( May 04, 2012).


Friday - May 04, 2012 :
I couldnt make it on friday so I got my treatment to be postponed to Saturday at 6.00PM ( May 05, 2012 ).


Saturday - May 05, 2012 at 6.00 PM :

I was in Hospital.I was very sick and afraid of pain. I am still so much depend on my parents especially when I am sick :P.

I wish my parents could be just beside me so that I can hold their hands when I felt pain.Luckily Dentist friendly smile comfort me little bit.But I know he can never never replace my parents.This Process includes  three steps.



First step is giving anesthetic injection very near to my right decayed tooth which makes of half of my right face numb.

Now the second step is cleaning the tooth which is of no pian :)

And  third step is removing the nerve which is little painy. Dentist told me to raise my hand whenever I felt Pain. In the middle of the process I raised my handas  it is little paining so he stopped for sometime and then started again. Seriously I myself didn't realize what is really happening .The only one thing I know at that time was dentise was just doing something in my mouth and playing with my tooth :)

Entire process was done with in 20 mins.Dentist told me that "my right cheeck will be heavy for another one hour as I have been given anesthetic injection  and he suggested me not to take anything for another one hour".

I was told I can eat whatever I want including chocolates and Icecreams except too much hot and sticky food  :P

And my next treatment will be on Tuesday at 6.30 PM ( May 08,2012) that process will take around 45 mins.

And overall what I can say is "RCT is not painful ". There will be very very very less pain.

Waiting for my next appointment on Tuesday at 6.30 PM ( May 08,2012) :)

Saturday, January 7

If you really love someone let them go where they want...!!

Recently I have finished reading a book "Eleven Minutes-- by Paulo Coelho " .

Eleven Minutes is a story of young pretty girl.I found a small story in this book which is worth posting. I know you love it...!! Here you go.. :)

Once upon a time , there was a bird.He was adorned with two perfect wings and with glossy, colorful, marvellous feathers.In short, he was a creature made to fly about freely in the sky , bringing joy to everyone who saw him.


One day, a woman saw this bird and fell in love with him.She watched his flight, her mouth wide in amazement , her heart pounding , her eyes shining with excitement.She invited the bird to fly with her , and the two travelled across the sky in perfect harmony.She admired and venerated and celebrated that bird.


But then she thought : He might want to visit far-off mountains! And she was afraid, afraid that she would never feel the same way about any other bird.And she felt envy,envy for the bird's ability to fly.


And she felt alone.


And she thought : "I'm going to set a trap.The next time the bird appears, he will never leave again."



The bird, who was alone in love , returned the following day, fell into the trap and was put in a cage.


She looked at the bird everyday.There he was, the object of her passion,and she showed him to her friends , who said :"Now you have everything you could possibly want". However a strange transformation began to take place: now that she had the bird and no longer needed to woo him, she began to lose interest.The bird , unable to fly and express the true meaning of his life, began to waste away and his feathers to lose their gloss, he grew ugly and the woman no longer paid him any  attention, except by feeding him and cleaning out his cage.


One day, the bird died.The woman felt terribly sad and spent all her time thinking about him.But she did not remember the cage, she thought only of the day when she had seen him for the first time, flying contentedly amongst the clouds.


If she had more looked deeply into herself, she would have realised that what had thrilled her about the bird was his freedom, the energy of his wings in motion , not his physical body.


Without the bird, her life too lost all meaning , and Death came knocking at her door . "Why have you come?" she asked Death."So that you can fly once more with him across the sky, " Death replied."If you had allowed him to come and go , you would have loved and admired him even more , alas , you now need me in order  to find him again."


If you really love someone let them go and set them free.If they really Love you then they will
be back.If they are not back then dont worry , God might have already set a Best one for you .
Believe in god , he know where you will be happy.

"Maintain your Perspective" - A nice story from "Who will cry when you die?"

Today I have started reading book "Who will cry when you die ? - By Robin Sharma" .

The moment I started reading the book , my mind asked me a quick question .

"Hey , before started reading tell me 'Who will cry when you die?' " . And my sincere answer is

"Of-course my family .It will take good amount of time for them to come back to this world again. The time might be one month , one year may one complete life time. And all of my colleagues and friends will recover soon .Some might be with in hours and some within days and weeks. People are always busy to get to their own work" .

I am going to share a nice story from that book. And here it is ..!!  :)

"A man with a serious illness was wheeled into a hospital room where another patient was resting on a bed next to the window.As the two became friends, the one next to the window would look out of and then spend the next few hours delighting his bedridden companion with vivid descriptions of thw world outside.some days he would describe the beauty of the trees in the park across from the hospital and how the leaves danced in the wind.On other days, he would entertain his friend with step-by-step replays of the things people were doing as they walked by the hospital.However, as the time went on, the bedridden man grew frustrated at his inability to observe the wonders his friend described.Eventually he grew to dislike him and then to hate him intensely.



           One night, during a particularly bad coughing fit , the patient next to the window stopped breathing.Rather than pressing the button for help, the other man chose to do nothing.The next morning the patient who had given his friend so much happiness by recounting the sights outside the window was pronounced dead and wheeled out of the hospital room.The other man quickly asked that his bed to be placed next to the window, a request that was complied with by attending nurse.But as he looked out of window, he discovered something that made hime shake:the window faced a stark brick wall.His former roommate had conjured up the incredible sights that he described in his imaginations as a loving gesture to make the world of his friend a little bit better during a difficult time.He had acted  out of selfless love."

We will come to know the value of people only when they are not with us. Please make sure you won't fall into this category. Know your neighbour value.Accept  love from all whether it is samll or big.(Can we measure love like small or big ??)

So please love your neighbour :)




Thursday, December 29

Yes, Virginia, There is a Santa Claus

Eight-year-old Virginia O'Hanlon wrote a letter to the editor of New York'sSun, and the quick response was printed as an unsigned editorial Sept. 21, 1897. 

A must read one . Read it slowly without hurry ..!! :)


Virginia's Letter to Editor :

Dear Editor

I am 8 years old. Some of my little friends say there is no Santa Claus. Papa says, “If you see it in The Sun, it’s so.” Please tell me the truth, is there a Santa Claus? 

VIRGINIA O'HANLON.
115 WEST NINETY-FIFTH STREET.

Editor's Reply:

VIRGINIA, your little friends are wrong. They have been affected by the skepticism of a skeptical age. They do not believe except [what] they see. They think that nothing can be which is not comprehensible by their little minds. All minds, Virginia, whether they be men's or children's, are little. In this great universe of ours man is a mere insect, an ant, in his intellect, as compared with the boundless world about him, as measured by the intelligence capable of grasping the whole of truth and knowledge.

Yes, VIRGINIA, there is a Santa Claus. He exists as certainly as love and generosity and devotion exist, and you know that they abound and give to your life its highest beauty and joy. Alas! how dreary would be the world if there were no Santa Claus. It would be as dreary as if there were no VIRGINIAS. There would be no childlike faith then, no poetry, no romance to make tolerable this existence. We should have no enjoyment, except in sense and sight. The eternal light with which childhood fills the world would be extinguished.

Not believe in Santa Claus! You might as well not believe in fairies! You might get your papa to hire men to watch in all the chimneys on Christmas Eve to catch Santa Claus, but even if they did not see Santa Claus coming down, what would that prove? Nobody sees Santa Claus, but that is no sign that there is no Santa Claus. The most real things in the world are those that neither children nor men can see. Did you ever see fairies dancing on the lawn? Of course not, but that's no proof that they are not there. Nobody can conceive or imagine all the wonders there are unseen and unseeable in the world.

You may tear apart the baby's rattle and see what makes the noise inside, but there is a veil covering the unseen world which not the strongest man, nor even the united strength of all the strongest men that ever lived, could tear apart. Only faith, fancy, poetry, love, romance, can push aside that curtain and view and picture the supernal beauty and glory beyond. Is it all real? Ah, VIRGINIA, in all this world there is nothing else real and abiding. 

No Santa Claus! Thank God! he lives, and he lives forever. A thousand years from now, Virginia, nay, ten times ten thousand years from now, he will continue to make glad the heart of childhood.

Saturday, December 10

"Self Respect" in dependent relationship

There is no relationship without dependency.Its hard to believe but its true.

The moment we realize "we are no longer depend on the other person" , we are nothing to each other .

Dependency might be in many forms. It might be either emotional , financial , physical. But sometimes it is nice to depend on other person and it is  a nice feeling to know that there is someone depend on us.

As a kid we completely depend on our parents , once you grow up you depend on friends for fun, company and whatever. And once you get married you will get to know your whole family is depending on you which may increase our responsibility but that is what makes your life keep going.



But one thing we must remember is "No relationship is worth sacrificing your dignity or self respect for....!!" .Never lose your self respect for others because that is what makes others to attract you. The moment they realize you are not what you are they will quit you in seconds .

sometimes people may take your self respect as "EGO" but as soon as they realize what you are they will come to you .If they are not realizing then it means they are not the ones who really deserve you love.

But never never ignore the small line between "Self respect" and "EGO".If you forget that line may be you will end up spending your whole life alone.

Have a good day ..!!


Thursday, October 6

Happy Dasara

Wish you Happy Dasara




Steve Jobs Dies

Who doesn't know about Steve Jobs in this world.

He is the one who kept Apple in the top place of industry. He is the creator of Apple iPhone,iPad,iPod.

But he passed away today.We all miss him very badly .

The homepage of Apple's website this evening switched to a full-page image of Jobs with the text,

"Steve Jobs 1955-2011."


Clicking on the image revealed the additional text:

"Apple has lost a visionary and creative genius, and the world has lost an amazing human being. Those of us who have been fortunate enough to know and work with Steve have lost a dear friend and an inspiring mentor. Steve leaves behind a company that only he could have built, and his spirit will forever be the foundation of Apple."



Monday, September 12

Welcome ..!!


Hi all .


This is my first post.
Today i am little busy . So I cant put good amount of content or information i have today
(Seems i am lying :P)
Whatever i will be back tomorrow. Until then have a great day :)